Date Night is Back.....and needs some ~PiZzaZz~

And I'm not talking about bedroom pizzazz (I know the thought crossed someone's mind when reading the title, hee hee). We started doing date night last fall. It's one night a month where we grab something to eat and do something else together that doesn't involve sitting on the couch in our living room. So in the past we carved pumpkins, caught a movie, went to a hockey game, caught another movie....and then it just became dinner only.

The purpose of date night, to me, is to get us out of the house together, spending time outside of what we usually do (which is usually watch TV- insert show here: __________). Time for us to shake up our routine and try new stuff together. I'm pretty easy to please, going on a walk would be activity enough for me, because it's NOT TV! My husband, however, is another story. Unless it is a sporting event or a movie, he's not into it, and if we try something new his "idea" about the activity turns the whole thing sour.

I guess what I'm wondering is: What are some new date ideas we could try??

I feel like if we don't make time for our relationship now, we'll really be in for a wake up when kids are in the picture.


P.S. If you read this and you don't blog, but you have ideas, just email me: marybrown1124@gmail.com

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4 days down, how many to go?

Just kidding, I'm not counting down days of school quite yet. That usually doesn't start until right after spring break when we have no more days off until summer vacation. I just wanted to give an update on my class this year at Carver. I've never had the same kind of class twice, which makes sense I suppose, different kids, different personalities, different "quirks" (I use that word lightly, meaning they could be good or bad). This year's preschool class is no exception, we have such a wide range of abilities from barely speaking English and just potty-trained to sounding out the spelling of familiar words and having the vocabulary of a 60-year old woman!

I see this melting pot of students as a challenge to my teaching, one which I will fully embrace- hopefully someday soon :) When I think about it more though, I makes me appreciate the insanity of myself and my co-workers even more. Who in the world wants to be a preschool teacher?! We're nuts, insane, loco, whatever you want to call it, that's us. If you've ever had to get lunch ready, while helping your kids wash their hands, while cleaning up milk spilled on the floor by someone who wasn't supposed to be touching the table because they just went to the bathroom and still need to wash their hands, while putting out the fire between the boy who looked at the other boy who burst into tears, while politely (yet firmly) telling another child that you will not wipe their bottom like mom does at home, while singing songs to occupy the children who are starving and ready to revolt unless their friends "hurry up so we can eat!"......then think about doing them with 18 children between the ages of 3 and 5, how could you NOT believe that preschool teachers aren't one fry short of a happy meal?! (And that's just lunch time)

I say all this, but of course I love my job and working with small children makes me appreciate the little things in life, like hugs, "I love you", holding hands, bubbles, being silly, and best of all- just enjoying what's in front of me. If you have a preschool teacher that you know and love, make sure to tell her exactly why you do- the kids and the families are why we do it.

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Drum roll please....

This weekend marked a very important moment in our home renovations.....kitchen counters and backsplash!! Our kitchen was a conundrum, a hot mess, just plain gross looking with the carpeted floors, white and gold marbled countertops and the lovely drapes with those nasty sharp hooks on the back. It has been an adventure remodeling this room of the house. We started by punching the up the color and tiling the floor. The funny thing about the tile is that we grouted half of the kitchen one weekend and then I ended up getting the wrong color of grout for the other half of the kitchen. It wasn't too much darker, but it was noticeable. I guess I kind of thought maybe there was something wrong when I put the grout in, but I figured it was just because it was wet. Now, we've been digging grout out of the tiles for a couple weeks- that should be the last big job in the kitchen- regrouting. But, I'm not so worried about it anymore, I'm just ecstatic that our new countertops are in and I LOVE the faux tin backsplash, yay!



Before: The beautiful bay window that looks out on our front yard from the dining portion of the kitchen. Check out that gorgeous valance :)


Notice the mirror above the sink- who doesn't love looking at their reflection as they slave away over dishes?!

Countertops removed; My dad raised up the other countertop so that we would have one continuous flow of space





After: We ended up getting laminate countertops, but they're glossy and speckled so they look like granite for a fraction of the price. We also extended the counter top into the living room a bit for a breakfast bar.


The faux tin backsplash- just plastic panels glued onto the wall, but it looks so good, especially with all the stainless steel appliances!


A little better view of what the countertop pattern looks like and how great everything looks in the kitchen. Now, if only we could get rid of that ceiling fan and the atrocious fluorescent lights that blind you.






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Soap Box

I feel like I really need to get some thoughts out in the open. As most everyone that I know knows, I teach preschool in Des Moines. My classroom is funded through a few different sources: the Harkin Grant, Empowerment, Prairie Meadows, and most recently and also for the final year, Early Reading First Grant. There are two sides to being so well-funded. On one hand you have plenty of resources ($$$) to funnel toward materials, field experiences, and GREAT professional development. On the other hand you have A LOT of accountability. This has never been more true for Early Childhood than right now in the state of Iowa. The upcoming election has many preschool teachers and administrators nervous about the future of our state funded preschool programs. This has led to efforts by my administrators to stream line the preschools in the Des Moines area. This has included everyone using the same literacy curriculum, the same play-based learning called Mature Play, the same assessments/screenings, and setting all preschools on a schedule as to how many weeks must be spent on each theme learned in the classroom.

The literacy curriculum that we use has pre-set themes which they provide books for. The literature is amazing, the theme layout and activities included leave much to be desired by a teacher. You don't have to be a teacher to know that children learn through their senses. You also do not need to be a teacher to know that learning about seasons in the middle of January in Iowa doesn't make much sense. The argument for the theme layout is that the publishing company set objectives for students to learn through each theme and that some teachers in the district were frustrated when other teachers weren't able to collaborate on planning because they weren't on the same themes. Theoretically, if you skipped around the themes the students would be missing skills. However, we don't use the activities included in the curriculum, so why would it matter what order the themes are learned in? Besides that, we don't teach to objectives, we teach children. Elementary, middle, and high school teachers are not required to stay on a subject for a certain amount of time, they stay on a subject until their students understand it. Why is it any different for preschool?

Preschool is a time of discovery, and preschool teachers should be teaching about things that students can hear, see, touch, taste, and smell. It has nothing to do with a curriculum and everything to do with making children aware of the world around them. By doing so, they begin to pick up on the skills they need to be successful learners. We read books to teach them about listening, concepts of print, and life situations. We play to teach them social skills, how to imagine, and behave in different types of roles. We teach them how to be flexible in their thinking by creating their own toys and props. We invite them to preschool to get a jump start on their education and to become committed lifelong learners. What happens when we take spontaneity and child interest out of the preschool classroom, in the name of bulleted objectives in a curriculum and teacher planning?

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Remodeling #3: Guest Bedroom

The guest bedroom was originally a little girl's bedroom. The walls were SO lavender and there was even a butterfly and flower border, but only around half of the room, haha! The room was also carpeted when we moved in. This was one of our easier upgrades, a little paint, some new wood laminate flooring, and window and closet hardware made for a nice little transformation. Hopefully the color is neutral enough to someday accent with some blues or pinks-- but don't get too excited about that statement, no news about babies yet!




Guest Bedroom: Before

We felt a little bad about getting rid of the carpet, it looked really new. The purple walls on the other hand....we had no problem priming right over those! You can the see the valance on the window, it was the same pattern as the border that was on the wall.




Guest Bedroom: After

I like the warm golden brown color, and I'm not sure what my recent obsession with green is. If it weren't for Jerod I may have painted each room in the house a different shade of green. I'm super proud of the throw pillow on the bed, I got it 75% off at Target, only 6 bucks!



You can't really see the flooring because of the area rug. My mom and I were at Lowe's grabbing supplies one morning and we found two of these area rugs on the clearance cart. Originally almost $200 each, the girl working flooring said that if we took them right then she would sell them both to us for $60 total. Although I wasn't really sure about the rug, it was a steal, and it actually looks great in the room! P.S. the bed is low because it's just an air mattress, anybody getting rid of a bed??

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Summer Wedding Finale

This weekend marked the final wedding for us to attend in 2010. Our friends Zach and Jen McVey are high school sweethearts and they FINALLY tied the knot in their hometown of Council Bluffs. I met Zach my sophomore year of college, we lived on the same dorm floor, and so this wedding was a big reunion of college friends. It is one of the few times we've gotten together since college, and we have vowed that it won't be the last. We're thinking a yearly reunion is in store for this Iowa State/Simpson/Iowa clan, with maybe a big vacation together every few years as well. Anyway, the wedding was a blast with much reminiscing of the carefree days of college. We wish Zach and Jen the best and hope that all made a safe return trip to their respective homes. Congrats Mr. & Mrs. McVey!!




Look at that toothy grin on JB!
A group dance of all our friends from college and the bride and groom's parents.

I just thought this was a funny pic of Jerod with our friends Doug and Jadon, they kind of look like the Three Musketeers or something. In lieu of swords they raise beers!


This is my favorite picture from the night. The guys all singing a Tenacious D song to the bride, if you don't know who Tenacious D is, please don't look them up unless you are over the age of 18, they have some slightly inappropriate lyrics!

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Remodeling #2: Office

The office was originally a bedroom for a little boy with a plush carpet and trains on the wall, just one wall. However, the door you see opens to the backyard and it sounded really creepy to me that someone would have their child's bedroom where there is an entrance to the house. I think this for many reasons, for little kids my fear would be someone taking them, for older kids my fear would be having "friends" over or sneaking out. Anyway, this room also leads from the kitchen and the guestroom so it made sense for us to make it an office. A little extra seating, some storage with the desk and bookshelf, some paint and new flooring made this a completely different room. The only thing I need now is decor, I'm going for different shades of blue and am having a hard time finding these things, I may have to create my own.


Before: Little Boy's bedroom




After: Kitchen view

Free couch from Bre w/ new slipcover, curtains made from a shower curtain
(See how I need to fill up the wall space?)

After: Couch View

The desk my dad made for me in college and an inexpensive bookshelf help us stay organized. But it turns out we have lots of junk we still need to find places for.

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